The girl devotes a guy knights
Men are able to conquer the world. But without the support of women to achieve positive results in life it is hard. Often wives criticized and scolded their husbands. But such attempts are unlikely to lead to something good. How to inspire your man to succeed? This knowledge we share.
Often in relationships women are beginning to take the initiative in their hands. Especially when men from such initiatives will not wait. Many women say, "Well, how else, if he does not have the desire and ability to do something?". This is a logical decision, and I agree with you. But this solution is not entirely true. When the girl takes the lead in their hands, it completely kills your spouse man. This is due to the fact that it opposes man's nature.
His wife berates her husband
The man born with the makings of a leader. He initially has the makings of a breadwinner, family protector and master. But the boy grows up and gains experience. The experience is both negative and positive. These parameters depend on the boy's family, his upbringing, identity, character, environment and many other components. If he had accumulated useful experience, with the man, the girl will feel like behind a stone wall. And conversely, if the accumulated negative experience, then the husband will be hard to get along with.
But oddly enough you have the opportunity to correct her man and inspire a true man's actions. The woman can re-educate your loved one and make the family happy.
The girl looks at the guy
First you need to find out why method of criticism, the attempts of the command and the curses to anything good does not. When you criticize, humiliate or scold the elect, then suppress it. You break it male psychology. Kill him as a leader, a sense of pride and self-esteem. You simply make him a subordinate. Yes, as if on the one hand it's nice to have an obedient husband. He will listen to you and you will him to command. But on the other hand it pulls a whole chain of negative events. You break it man, you seriously rely on him, because without you he is unable to do something, to think about the family you need. He can't succeed at work, since he can't defend his position, and to achieve promotion it will be almost impossible. He simply used that control them. So you have from time to time there will be quarrels and insults, due to the fact that the nature of men from time to time will make itself felt. When you're annoyed, he's not going to be able to reassure you. Well, to reassure you, if he is not an authority for you? There's gonna have to wait. And at the end you will be with him simply boring.
The girl bored with a guy
So I propose to build another, more successful model of the family. Namely, the model where you will feel like a woman, and he a man. In such relationships you'll be able to achieve harmony.
So, how to inspire a man to true acts of courage and success:
1. Praise him. Change criticism to another more successful method is a method of praise. When the person to thank for certain positive acts, he will want to do even more useful. This method is often used by smart leaders who want to achieve more efficiency from their employees. When people criticize, humiliate you can make him some productivity in little time. But only after retiring into another room, your husband will cease to engage in the task, as worker in the workplace.
2. Respect. Respect your husband. In every family there are quarrels, but we must understand that humiliation and profanity does not make your man successful. If you treat it with respect, he will feel confident at work and at home. Will go to work with my head held high and not lowering the head to think about how bad it is. Thereby you will not hurt his male ego, which is very important to men.
Husband hugging wife
3. The request for assistance. Use your feminine nature. No need to command man. The desired result is to achieve in this way you will be extremely difficult. Imagine that you are in need of protection. You are a woman, and therefore entitled to protection. Then go to the beloved and ask him to help you to do some work around the house. Will see the result will be pleasantly surprising. For this reason is a good example. Once the woman scolded her son for the unwashed dishes and the other doesn't work. But to achieve could not. And one day she came home tired and exhausted. Seeing in the kitchen a lot of dirty dishes, she went to her son and asked me to help her, since she is very tired. Imagine, the son obeyed and washed all the dishes. Men are created to protect women and when a woman asks for help they are happy to help, and thus to demonstrate their power.
The wife asks her husband for help
My advice is simple, respect, love your husband and inspire him to heroic deeds. When you get married, you promise to do it all. Why did you stop? Remember your promise and follow it. Yes, the result may not be instantaneous. What did you expect, it's like a disease, the longer left untreated, the more effort you need to spend for treatment. Therefore be patient and apply these techniques in your family. I am sure the result will not keep itself waiting.
